Stop Shooting the Messenger!
October 27, 2023 “Stop Shooting the Messenger!” Shooting the messenger" (or "blaming the bearer of bad tidings") is a metaphoric phrase used to describe the act of assailing the person delivering bad news, despite that individual having no direct responsibility for the news being relayed. Thisdestructive behavioris frequently observed in people who receive distressing news. Their first instinct is to lash out at the person telling them the information, rather than addressing the underlying issue responsibly. As the ultimate messenger at TFC I might get a T-shirt made that says, “Don’t shoot me…point the gun at yourself!” Midpoint and end ....
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